Yes, absolutely agree with that. To get that wonderful feeling that your partner is satisfied, has cum before you is the height of wonder for me. The whole romance thing is beautiful, having a meal with good wine to get you both in the mood.
Using fingers to lightly brush your erogenous zones during that meal. Secret touches under a table, light strokes of the fingernails along the open forearm, behind the ears, down the neck, maybe a slight stroke of the breasts and nipples when nobody is watching. Hot breath as you whisper into her ear, promises of gentle love or other. Stroking the hand, sucking your fingertips.
The build up of expectations, stroke your butt as you stand in front in the elevator, put your arm around the waist from behind, kiss you lightly on the neck, pull you in close so you can feel my erection rising.
By the time you get into the room, you are both so aroused, that all will follow on, the undressing, more tasting, licking, touching. That is how making love should be, well it is for me.
You say "consuming every inch of me." That is exactly how it should be for both parties. A meal, a dance of the contest as you give up your inhibitions, your inner soul, just release, submit.
Then the second and third rounds become pure letting go.