Totally agree. You can’t beat the preparations for a dirty weekend or a naughty night long session.

Prepare the room with aromatic candles, dim lights, a chilled bottle of Sancerre in the ice bucket. Undress each other slowly and play, kissing those erogenous zones, lightly run the fingers along the arms to make your partner all goosebumpy, use massage oils, stop in between for a sip from the glass of wine and pass the wine from mouth to mouth. Play a little game of dice with sexy penalties. Use food, wine or other in your foreplay. Eat peaches and cream off her body. The best warm-up ever is to use a good brandy or cognac, take a small mouthful, warm it around your mouth and go down on her, let the liquid run out of your mouth and run from her clitoris and into the vulva, lick it around her pussy lips and wait for the heat to get through to her, then see what an amazing effect that has! She will want that many times after the first, but it is a technique you can ration and hold back for other times. I guarantee she will love you forever.

After you have shared juices, and made the bed messy and wet, laugh about that and have a quick shower together, soaping the other and rinsing after. Towel each other off and return to the bed lay a towel over the wet part and just chat and play, again use your fingers and tongue to search new erogenous zones, suck and lick fingertips or toes, use silk lingerie or just a scarf to tickle and feel through. As you doze off, make a pact for what the first one to wake up will do to the other sleepy partner. There is nothing better than to be awakened by oral sex being performed on you, then you go again, and again.

That is what I call a long slow sensual, sexy session. If you’ve never tried it before with the brandy, you must. One word of warning though where drink and oral sex is concerned, never use champagne or sparkling wines, it is like a thousand needles piercing your most sensitive parts!