Thanks for the input. I work on myself as per all your 3 suggestions at the end.

As far as the first 3 choices I more or less have agreed that with myself already those options. 1 & 2 probably won’t happen, 3 neither but for current political reasons. I have offered her to move nearer the coast, somewhere close to escape post-Brexit, but she won’t have that. The whole Brexit nonsense has made it imperative for me to move overseas somewhere at some time. I’ll try to provide for her from wherever I end up. Maybe she’ll come when I’m successful. I don’t see the UK as being a place to make serious money any more.

With this neo-fascist nationalist style government, we have 4 more years of crap so I have to move on somehow.