I've had a few sexual liaisons with single Muslim women during my travels and all were the instigators. Most were in Asian countries like Indonesia and Malaysia where things are a little less restrictive. A couple were in Iran where it was very dangerous, but both of those were encouraged by older married women who chaperoned and covered us happily. Those were during Ramadan, and your article has made me wonder if that was also a driving factor.

One affair though was with a younger married lady in the UK, she even had 2 kids, but was obviously feeling angry with her husband who spent a lot of time watching other women on his computer and neglected her. She did the approach through an online dating app. We met in secret a couple of times and it was her first affair. I warned her of the guilt she might feel, and asked if she was sure, before embarking on our liaison. Despite fulfilling her fantasies on a few occasions, she eventually freaked out with worry, and sent me via mail, "I can no longer be unfaithful to my husband or my God."

I wrote on here about it: https://medium.com/@bgt00847/break-free-my-little-bird-in-a-cage-break-free-13f0b15cd0d4

For Iran: https://medium.com/globetrotters/my-attempt-at-sanctions-busting-in-iran-d47617ade2a7