I've been the same with the 'other' women in my life. I tend to love people in general, and their inner souls. I've always sought to find out what makes others 'tick' when with a lover.

Apart from about 2 mistakes, they've all remained great friends also.

I even researched their star signs and found that on balance fellow Cancerians were so much sexier and willing as lovers, and so openly sexual and similar to myself. Capricorns have been the next and the most intensely emotional.