I was NOT taught Sex Education at All

I could not learn from even those you mention here.

When I went through puberty, there was no internet, only Health & Efficiency Magazine, the likes of Playboy and Penthouse weren't widely available either!

I had to learn 'on the job' so to speak! lol

My kicks were from a cartoon character in the post war Daily Mirror, called 'Jane' who was always losing her outer garments in strange situations, leaving her in her sexy underwear, of frillies, suspenders and stockings.

That is why in later life, I decided to study, sexual techniques, learning from columns in Forum and later Erotic writings.

Then as my travels took me to the East and much freer, less 'hung up' cultures I studied 'hard' (No pun intended) and my Malaysian friend explained to me that unlike in the West you do not have to 'fall in love'' to have sex, and that out there sex was a body function like any other!!!

The problem for me has always been that I do fall emotionally for almost every partner, but maybe that has been what has given me the edge and meant that I have been blessed with staying in contact and remaining friends and occasionally make out again when we meet up.

I literally love them as people and their good hearts always.

As I got older, I learnt more tantric techniques and incorporated those in a form of meditative sex using my Arhatic Yoga practices and that has proved to be the ultimate, bringing spirituality into my technique. We've spoken before about that Dona and I encourage you to learn, because there is no better fulfilment.

I would encourage everyone to get a good sex education, don't get caught up with any religious guilt trips, get out and learn, sensibly, how to enjjoy, be self-confident and learn that both of you are entitled to the pleasure.