I was 30 years older than my partner and we were together for 15 years. I met her at age 52. We split for other reasons but we are still great friends. She has already told me since that I was the one she wanted to end her days with even after our break-up. The baby thing wasn’t true like your friend said as she got pregnant when I was almost 60. I was the one that thought that she shouldn’t be tied to me as I got older, looking ahead I felt that she should get someone younger. As you said, life could play out differently, who knows. I used to be quite proud when I overheard her friends asking her about the age difference and she would laugh and point at my head and dick and say, “Him and him, 19 years old!” and that would embarrass them into smiles and laughter, and I would strut like Tarzan.