I totally agree with you and sympathise with you. It is akin to actual rape to do this and he should be prosecuted the hell out of and deserves all he gets. The problem with that, of course, is that in court his defence lawyers would be trying to nail you as the slut. Any trial should be held in camera. What an arse-hole, you did nothing wrong. You were being beautiful and liberated and comfortable with your sex-life and it was something shared at the time to enhance your love-life. Any guy who puts that up on-line and shares with anybody other than you without your permission deserves 10 years or a beating. That is not a man, in my opinion, that is a psychotic individual.