I so agree with all you have written here. It even crosses the sex of the persons you get attracted to and by.

My current GF and I have never met physically, but collaborate in our writing. She approached me originally because of my writing. We live countries apart and our circumstances are holding back our physical meeting at the moment. But we are confident that will happen eventually.

On my travels and life overseas I noticed who was attracted to me as I got older and why. I have used my pen and debate to seduce unapologetically.

I am certainly not that physically attractive and with a number of faults that seem to also enhance that attraction to some people of both sexes.