I really do sympathise with that viewpoint, I'd do ethical porn also. That's given me something to search for. From a male point of view, it is always why I try to write my own more as romances.

My ex Thai GF used to take me to the markets there and seek out porn videos that she would like us to try at home because they are censored online, she wanted for when I was travelling but she would often like nothing more than an early evening session after a shower and before we would go out for dinner. It was a great way to work up an appetite and she would shiver sometimes and punch my arm at dinner and "say just come again." She used to make me feel so proud as a guy.