An excellent summary Kim. Once I got to my fifties and had attracted a few younger women, who had latched onto me as a teacher in the art of erotic sensuality, situations as you described happened, not with sixteen year olds but mostly with young women who were either married and not being satisfied or considered properly by their husbands or often coming out of a divorce or relationship.

I did indeed gain such confidence in my technique that I did use similar wording to your paramour on a few occasions. My offerings were always in higher class hotels, with aromatic candles, good wines, sensual clothing and massages and always at least 3 days.

Tantric techniques and a gradual loosening of the western hang-ups usually taught them to enjoy life more. The only problem was that as I got older I didn't want to teach any more, I wanted to be taught newer experiences myself. That was harder to find whilst still being under the art of eroticism.