Always more oral play. One thing you see in porn, which is nonsense and actually hurts some of us is sucking the balls. A big no no from here. Play with them, lightly stroke them is cool.

Nipple play is also good.

Tonguing the perineum and around the butt hole is cool.

With the guy bending on all fours, reach in from behind and masturbate him while opening his butt with your tongue.

Always share through kisses, wine, brandy etc.

When a woman feeds you is so sexy.

The Asian women know many tricks, even down to squeezing spots on your back, and always manicuring and pedicuring. My pal with a Thai wife used to say that sometimes it was like being in the movie "Gorilla's in the mist."