Absolutely love you for that piece. That is how we should all be. Let go and things happen. Change who you are to what you want, be a little selfish and enjoy your body.

Be sensual, as you say there, and things happen. Pamper yourself, wear soft sensual clothes, put silk sheets on the bed or choose seductive perfume. It all adds up, then you'll find that you are walking differently, attracting looks. Age is immaterial.

Read my article on Silk and Sensuality it is made for you.

If you use your rabbit before going out, or dress in silk underwear, turn yourself on, when you head out you'll find that you have unwittingly given off pheromones that attract, these are all you need. That and an underlying abandon, let go and relax, when you have the sex, and you'll find your orgasms will intensify.

Enjoy the new you.