Yes, my previous gf used to have a thing about it. It was in similar situations to you with being in Hotels looking out high over other blocks. That happened in both Manila and Vung Tau. She also liked to risk cameras in car parks.

A previous gf way back also used to like public areas, in bars she would often sneak into my jeans under the table, and in airport car parks as we said farewell. She also used to like walking out with just an overcoat on and head for shop doorways or out on country paths.

I must admit it was scary at times, but the fear of getting caught "in flagrante delicto" made me cum quicker than usual, and I think it was that power that she had over me, that she liked.

It should not even be an issue. The more you treat it as something special and not the norm the less chance you will have of having an integrated society where race issues should not concern people.

I'm from the UK and whilst working in the UAE had a Nigerian…

I did that in many countries that I worked. In China it was fun, even getting it wrong is fun. When I was a Youth and backpacked across France one lady restaurant owner loved playing charades and making animal sounds when we used to enquire about the menu. Even though our French wasn't that bad, she enjoyed playing games with us.

Byron George

Positive & openly sensual author; loves diversity, travel, other cultures, pan, poly whatever! Meditator, living, loving and growin’ old disgracefully.

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